One of my designs I have written down is to wake at 5.30 each morning, another is to take a morning walk. I have put these goals into writing as lately I have found it next to impossible to rouse myself before late morning/mid afternoon, and sometimes I barely set foot outside for days at a time. The chronic fatigue that limits my activities hit me quite hard this year, I am glad to say that I am now in the process of building myself up again.
So I was very happy that these designs have seeped into my consciousness and this morning I awoke at 5, and after a 20 minute meditation MP3 I went for a walk at the local lakes. The first thing that greeted me upon arrival was a fox, and being a nature lover this was amazing for me.
Why am I telling you all this?
Well, I wanted to talk about mindfulness today. It is a subject that I am very interested in, it is also not an easy skill to develop.
When I talk about mindfulness, this word conjures up different ideas to each person – the associations we have about a word often leads to misunderstandings. This is just a word which points to a truer meaning behind it, look to the underlying principle and see how it applies to you.
This is not a philosophy, but rather it is just a process by which we still our mind so that we can appreciate the environment around us and within. We become the observer of our mind and in this way diminish it’s power over us.
- It’s an uncovering of who we really are!
I have been practicing mindfulness for some time now, and whilst I can remain present (appreciating the moment) much of the time, I still have much to do to allow this to become a permanent habit.
The image I found for today’s post accurately describes my walk of this morning (as well as most of my daily routines) Sometimes I am the man with thoughts rushing through his head, and sometimes I am the young girl (figuratively speaking of course!)
So how do you introduce a practice of mindfulness into your life! – remember that I said it is just a process, we don’t need to do anything more special than stop ourselves every so often throughout the day to metaphorically ‘smell the roses.’
Do this with your activities that have become routine:
- In the shower – feel the water and the heat on your head and body, be invigorated by this cleansing ritual
- Eating – slow down, enjoy each mouthful and taste each bite (still working on this one!)
- Washing up – be grateful for the process of cleaning your environment, for the food and drink that you have enjoyed
- Walking – feel the ground underneath you, smell the flowers, hear the sounds all around (you can even appreciate the sounds of the traffic this way)
- Smoking – being mindful of each inhalation and every cigarette I smoked helped me to quit this habit with little effort (some effort at first, but not much)
We are always fighting against everything, minor problems become disasters, small annoyances become huge arguments.
Learn to let go little by little, then you can enjoy life as it is! Minor problems will be dealt with, small annoyances can be let go of. When we change our perception, we realise that we have choice! and choice is the power to be happy, to be mindful.
When I was in my teens there was a moment that stands out clearly in my recollection; the world seemed to spin around me and wouldn’t stop, it felt like a merry-go-round that I could not get off. (I had other experiences like that but they were all induced by alcohol – so I found a remedy for that situation too)
It was caused by all the thoughts that were running through my head which I couldn’t shut off. It was really a horrible feeling and looking back now I believe it caused me to become more aware of the damage that thoughts can do to us. There are lessons in every event if we choose to look!
To make this a fun process concentrate on appreciating the positive in our life, don’t focus on removing the negative – that will naturally happen as a by-product of being happy.
What we focus on we create.
This will always be a work in progress, so view it as a continuous development and don’t worry if you don’t see results straight away.
side note – whilst writing this article on mindfulness, I have still been distracted half a dozen times!
Have fun with it, don’t try – as this is counterproductive, just add little reminders into each day.
Appreciate, laugh and smile.
Photo: Mind Full v. Mindful, by Heidi Forbes Öste cc by 2.0